the everyman memoirs
The official blog of author Tali Nay.
End of an Era
People have asked me what it feels like now that I'm a gemologist. And while it's hard to say that "the same" and "amazing" can both be valid answers, they sort of are. It's like you feel after your birthday...no older, but you'd like to think you are changed somehow nonetheless. And of course every day there is still the recollection of last week's exam, how hard it was, learning I passed, the satisfaction and amazement still fresh.
Gemologist
It is a bit sad that as we grow older, there seem to be fewer dreams to chase. Maybe not so much because we in actuality have fewer dreams, but because it just gets so easy to justify not chasing them. It's too hard. It's too late. Our lives are already too set. People depend on us. Our lifestyles might suffer. We fear failure. Our lives took other paths. Other things are more important.
Slow Living
I took this picture while sitting in Washington Square Park eating fresh bread and cheese (From Amy's and Murray's, respectively) and washing it all down with a beverage from Papaya Dog. If you've read the book pictured above, New Slow City, this will all seem apropos.
The Call for Customer Service
I consider myself a reasonable person. I don't lose my temper at the retail counter. I pay a higher price when something is rung up incorrectly (except the NYC toilet paper incident a few months back, which was so humiliating to me that I will likely never speak up again).
Coast to Coast
When you live in New York, a trip to California is, well, far. Especially when you'll only be there for 32 hours. Not that I mind. Plane rides give me lots of uninterrupted reading time, not to mention the chance to wax poetic about the beauty to be seen between coastlines.
The Fashion Show
I consider myself a decent writer. On most days, anyway. Sometimes. Occasionally. Ok, fine. I once wrote something that was pretty good.
The Bucket List
I've been plugging away at the NYC version of my bucket list. My birthday was probably the greatest progress I've made yet--Pippin Vintage Jewelry (which I've since been back to), the elusive Central Park Carousel, etc.--and since I last updated this blog, I've gone to my first Knicks game and seen the Rockettes.
The Birthday List
I made a list this year. Not of what I wanted, but what I wanted to do on my birthday. It's the first time I've lived in such a big city for my birthday, and also the first time I've been unemployed, so it was really the first birthday I've had where I felt not only like the whole day was really mine, but also like the sky was indeed the limit.
Let's Talk About Writing
I'm ashamed of how seldom I actually talk about writing on this blog. Further, I am ashamed about how little writing I've done since moving to NY period.
Time Travel
I recently read Amy Poehler's memoir, and while I was pretty disappointed by it, one thing she said that has stuck with me is the idea of time travel.
The City that Never Sleeps. Ever.
Since moving to New York, I've never slept so horribly. It really all boils down to one reason, and it's because no one else sleeps either. I'm being completely serious.
No. 1 Seed
I love March Madness. I really do. Considering that I much prefer the NBA to college ball, it really all just comes down to the competition of it all; the fact that with a bracket, I get to have my own say.
B&B, anyone?
This is the Center Lovell Inn. It's in Maine, and if you've seen the headlines that have been positively everywhere this week, you'll know that the current owner, who won the inn over twenty years ago in--get this--an essay contest, is offering dreamers the chance to win the same contest once again
My TV Debut
Being unemployed in New York City is an interesting thing. You'll recall that I am unemployed by choice, having quit my corporate job in order to get my gemology certification in preparation to transition my career to something in the gemology realm. But back to the point, which is that I am unemployed. And as such, I have some time on my hands.
The Typewriter Doctor
I've always hoped to one day own a vintage typewriter. Not because I would type my manuscripts on it or because it would have any practical purpose whatsoever, but as a writer, it's just, well, nostalgic
Archives
- life
- reading
- Editing
- Dreams
- Summer
- Covid-19
- auntie
- New York City
- author
- Jeweled
- San Diego
- Love
- Christmas
- Family
- memoirs
- gemology
- vacation
- Cleveland Cavaliers
- Disneyland
- moving
- Author Fair
- Jewelry
- Fooled
- cat lady
- Work
- Diamonds
- book signing
- Home
- Spring
- memories
- cats
- Risks
- Singleton
- Gratitude
- Fall
- NBA
- lockdown
- Winter
- kindle
- Hope
- running
- high school
- new book
- Goodreads
- baking
- writing
- books
- Cleveland
- Manuscript
- Schooled
- Cat
- California
- travel
- Oregon
- Newbie
- Goals
- book launch
- New Years resolutions
- writers
- book sales
- Birthday
- Tiffany and Co.
- Valentines Day
- book reviews
- beach
- Change
- progress
- Yuppie
- Billy Collins
- Lebron James
- Single
- Decisions
- New Years Eve
- March Madness
- holidays
- libraries
- Disney
- basketball
- quarantine
- Typesetting
